Empathy
I have been thinking about empathy lately, and how at times it seems hard to find, especially when triggered, and how at other times it comes naturally, freely and effortlessly.
Here is what I found after some soul-searching (and some researching):
Empathy is a term we use for the ability to understand other people's feelings as if we were having them ourselves.
My Interview with Elite Daily: How To Find Balance In Life Through Your Yoga Practice & The Art Of Ayurveda
Come Back To Yourself
The quality of our lives depend on the quality of our relationships, including the relationship we have with our bodies.
Let’s be honest, we are middle-aged, at least I am, and so are most of my friends and students (some are millennials).
The question is: How do you want to age?
It is not the one handed arm balances that allow you to age gracefully but consistent practice time spent on the mat, moving your body in ways that strengthen, stretch, contract and release the muscles and joints.
We all want to be able to get out of bed easily in the morning (using our core), bend over and pick something up effortlessly (flexible hamstrings), and reach back in the car while driving safely (supple spine). It's a well- balanced practice that let’s you tap into and nudge open all body parts in a mindful and respectful way. We need more tenderness and curiosity in our practice, and let ourselves be informed by what is going on in our bodies and mind every time we step onto our mats, or sit on our cushions.
Yoga is not prescriptive practice, not a ‘one size fits all’ practice.
I have been noticing the tendency to resort to restorative yoga practices as people age (50+). Although there is a time and need for restorative yoga to balance the stress and anxiety in life and go deep into our connective tissue (as in Yin yoga), we need to continue to practice at a level that keeps our bones and tissues healthy by challenging ourselves to meet our edge, even as we get older.
Think about it like this: If you want to be strong as you get older, keep building strength, mindfully. If you want to stay flexible continue to stretch your body while tuning into your body's messages and signals.
Now, a flexible mind/personality is a different thing, and in my opinion is the result of an ongoing meditation practice. Presence is the awareness that is intrinsic to our nature. It arises when we are fully immersed in our experience. It is this process that eventually allows us to respond wisely to life's challenges, rather than react emotionally. It has now been proven that the brain and mind can continue to develop and change throughout life, enabling us to create new pathways!
So the practice of self-care is training our minds to re-embody rather than dis-embody, and making a space safe and comfortable enough to let that process happen. And from this lens, self-care begins to look a lot like meditation practice.
In meditation, we’re training two parts of our mind: concentration, defined as the ability to stay with our present experience (usually of the breath), and awareness, knowing where our minds are in any given moment.
As you get deeper into the practice of self-care, things might change. You might find that what you enjoy starts to shift.
I’ve recently had an insight: my habit of listening to podcasts every time I sit down in my car to drive either to teach or to pick up my kids has been adding to my stress level.
As much as I love to learn and educate myself, my Pitta mind goes into overwhelm with all the accumulated knowledge that I’m piling on during my drive time!
Not listening to podcasts made me feel like wasting my time, with all the driving I do these days…until I rediscovered the power of music, and the feelings a beautifully written and performed song can evoke! I am re-learning to tap into feeling and not dwell in my intellect so much.
Our mini retreat offered on Nov 4th will allow you to do just that. Tap into feeling through Yoga, meditation and let yourself be transported by live music by the incredibly talented Annmarie Soul.
Find out why Ayurveda is still going strong after 5000 years, and how it can help you thrive.
Savor organic food and cherish conversations, and allow your self to pause and breathe, at The Mountain Mermaid, right here in beautiful Topanga!
Please go out and watch the documentary HEAL, about the power of healing through positive thoughts, actions, faith and food.
Finally, which of my Ayurvedic Balancing Blends is your favorite and why? Have you smelled all of them yet?
I am expanding into retail and would love to hear of a yoga studio or gift store near you that might be interested in carrying my oils.
I will offer you 2 free oil blends of your choice for any leads that result in a whole sale account!
Enjoy this never-ending Summer, and remember to see the goodness in all beings!
With so much Love,
Vivica
YOGAWORKS TEACHER TRAINING IN JANUARY
Dear Students & Friends --
This Month I will be assisting a Yogaworks intensive Teacher Training in Santa Monica, led by Malachi Grieves.
A lot of you have asked me why I choose to do this now with a flourishing Ayurveda practice and a full teaching schedule.
I Believe We Need To Constantly Challenge Ourselves and evolve through continuous curiosity, right action and focused intention to move forward, rather then standing still or being stuck in a rut. I've been contemplating the role of a Teacher Trainer a few times in the last several years, but have always backed away from the time involvement due to having 3 little kids.
The time has come for me to step up my game and into the role of a leader to teach others about the transformative power of Yoga.
This month I am excited to assist Malachi Melville in her intensive TT format at Yogaworks and support her students as they find their voice and build their teaching skills. I Am Looking Forward to brushing up on Yoga philosophy, anatomy, the yoga sutras and the subtle body. I love being a student, and I look forward to supporting aspiring teachers on their path.
I thrive on challenges and opportunities and welcome change.
I invite you all to continue practicing while I'm gone with my fantastic subs, fellow teacher and friend Annmarie Soul, and the wonderful Amy Harrington.
Annmarie will cover all Tuesday and Thursday classes at Yoga Desa, starting January 10th until February 2nd!
Amy will cover all Yogaworks classes in Westlake on Mondays & Fridays, as well as Tuesday and Thursday evenings, and Wednesday mornings in Woodland Hills.
I am very grateful to them both.
I am looking forward to seeing many of you on my Sunday morning class at 10.30am at Yoga Desa in Topanga!
I will be back teaching my regular schedule on February 6th.
Sold Out Ojai Retreat!
On another note, our Spring retreat in Ojai March 17-19th is Sold Out! I cannot wait to take such a beautiful group of souls into a deeply enriching and nourishing weekend with co-teacher Annmarie Soul.
We are already planning our next retreat this Fall, for those of you that weren't able to get into the Spring retreat, mark your calendars!
Thanks to all of you who came out to our New Year's Day class at Yoga Desa! What a great way to start the year.
SPRING RETREAT • TEACHER TRAININGS • TIPS OF THE MONTH
SPRING YOGA RETREAT with Vivica Schwartz & Annmarie Soul
March 17 - 19th, 2017 • OJAI SANCTUARY
Are You Ready To Pamper Your Beautiful Self On A Three Day Journey Of Turning Inward And Practice The Ancient Art Of Self-Transformation?
I am joining forces with co-teacher Annmarie on this retreat and together we lead you through a deeply nourishing and rejuvenating weekend of Yoga, meditation, Ayurveda talk and live music. The retreat will coincide with next year’s Spring Equinox, in an exquisite sanctuary in Ojai, at the foot of the Los Padres National forest, within walking distance from downtown Ojai.
Come unwind with us, and enjoy the beauty of Ojai’s hiking trails, or soak in the saltwater pool and read. There will be time to connect and unplug, to socialize and find solitude. Our food will be prepared by a celebrated Ayurveda cook, who infuses his meals with love and gratitude. Give your Self a gift of selfLOVE and join us. Spaces are limited and will fill up fast, so reserve your spot now!
YOGAWORKS TEACHER TRAINING
I will be assisting Malachi Grieves' 200 Hour Teacher Training at Yogaworksthis coming January on Main St in Santa Monica.
My kids are getting older and I can spend more time apart from them without causing too much emotional pain in either of us. ;-)
If you are looking for a solid foundation to teach asana safely and learn about sequencing, anatomy and pranayama this will be a good one. This training is in an intensive format, one month, every day except weekends, starting January 9th. I am happy to answer any questions you might have.
PARA YOGA TRAINING IN TOPANGA
I am beyond excited to be collaborating with Tracee Stanley on her next Para Yoga Training in Topanga beginning in March 2017. I will be teaching the Ayurveda module, something I am very passionate about.
This teacher training will be taught over the course of 10 months (every 3rd weekend of each month) and will include in-depth knowledge about the subtle body, chakras, anatomy, the 4 desires as taught by Rod Stryker, Yoga Nidra, Ayurveda, the Yoga Sutras, Vinyasa Krama, pranayama and meditation.
Viveka Essential Oils Update
I couldn’t be happier about the feedback from my Ayurvedic Healing Blends! They are in strong demand and now available at The Healing Tree in Thousand Oaks, Kingfisher Road in Woodland Hills, and Topanga Mercantile in Topanga.
I am working on 2 new blends that will surely transport you, one containing Jasmine, the other feels like a walk through a deep forest. You’ll have to wait for the next Newsletter to hear more!
AYURVEDA TIPS OF THE MONTH
1. Ayurveda talks about 3 seasons that correspond to the three primary doshas: Fall/Winter is Vata season (November-February), Spring is Kapha season (March-June) and Summer is Pitta season (July-October). Watch out for dry skin and irregular digestion, both Vata related and easy to balance. Use the Vata Massage Oil for your daily abhyanga. This oil is made from organic sesame and olive oil and is infused with herbs that are grounding, relaxing and warming, such as ashwagandha, sharavari, tulsi, bala and others. It is very light and luxurious.
2. Take extra care to keep your internal fire (agni) kindled. Eat warm, moist foods—think stews, soups, and root veggies — and save the salads and cold snacks for summer. Avoid raw or cold foods. Stewed apples, pears and prunes with cloves make a great breakfast! Eat more proteins and fats to rebuild the body and mind while insulating us from the colder months. Prepare foods that taste sweet, sour, and salty. Why these tastes? In each case, nature is providing something the body needs to pacify the change of season and balance the qualities of Vata.
3. Relax and sit down when you eat.
4. Stick to a routine: eat, practice, play, rest at the same time every day.
5. Wear hats or beanies to keep your head warm.
6. Snuggle up in front of a fire with a good book and a blanket and a cup of chai or hot tea. Warm milk (almond is fine) laced with ghee (or coconut oil), honey, cinnamon and cardamom is a perfect nighttime elixir (I add half a teaspoon of Ashwhaganda and Shatavari powder).
7. Go to bed earlier (before 10pm) and rub some more oil on your feet (sesame oil with lavender, or my Vata Balancing Blend).
MY FAVORITE HERB THIS FALL IS TULSI (HOLY BASIL)
Highly sattvic in nature, it heightens awareness & promotes mental clarity.Tulsi is one of the most sacred plants in India, and is often kept in courtyards and houses for its purifying and beneficial influence on its surroundings.
Tulsi promotes healthy circulation and supports proper function of the heart.
It strengthens digestion and bolsters the immune system.
It is said to open the heart and mind and bestow the energy of love and devotion.
I LOVE the tincture, it is more potent than drinking the tea.
To get it CLICK HERE.
'Til Next Time
For now, stay well friends on the path, continue to thrive and shine your inner light.
V.
ARE YOU OLEATING ENOUGH?
How About Internal Oleation?
Drinking increasing amounts of ghee in the mornings is part of a traditional Ayurvedic cleanse. It provides necessary lubrication to bring toxins from the deep tissues to the digestive tract, from which they can be eliminated though herbs such as Triphala.
But even if you are not cleansing, make sure you consume enough of the good fats such as olive oil, coconut oil, ghee or butter from grass-fed cows (avoid soy, corn, canola and sunflower oils) to feed your brain, regulate hormones, mood and nerve functions. Saturated fats are crucial for the structure of our cell membranes and do not cause the liver to produce the saturated fats found in your blood.
As you’ve probably all heard by now, it’s not the fat that ends up on your body, but the carbohydrates and sugar that are responsible for weight gain. (Thank you Mark Hyman for illuminating us).
Enjoy the Full Moon on Saturday, get out and gaze at her beauty in wonder and amazement.
Are you oleating enough?
The practice of Abyangha (or Ayurvedic self-massage) is a key part of our self-care routine.
Especially now that we’’re in Fall (Vata) season, oil up your body before or after your morning shower with warm sesame oil (maybe with specific herbs cooked into the oil, see Banyan Botanicals). Long strokes on the long bones and circular movements around the joints. This is one way to love-your-self-up and nourish your skin at the same time. Then grab your Vata Balancing Blend and roll it on from inner wrists to inner elbow and breath in deeply. Any time of day.
HAPPY FALL EVERYONE!
Fall is a major transition from Summer to Winter, and October is the month in which we can help our bodies make that transition as smooth as possible.
We are experiencing shorter days and longer nights and are moving from the intense heat to lower temperatures and more wind. Our digestive system gets stronger in the winter and our parasympathetic nervous system (rest & digest) kicks in.
As we transition out of Summer’s intensity and into Fall’s dry, cold and mobile qualities, there’s a few things we can do to stay stable and grounded: On colder days start incorporating more warming, nourishing dishes with plenty of good fats (ghee, olive oil, coconut oil) and establish a routine for yourself. On hotter days eat more ripe fruits and vegetable from the vine, but make sure that you’re allowing your body to yield to the seasonal changes by incorporating more warming stews, root vegetables and squashes into your diet.
Amply apply the Vata Balancing Blend from inner wrists to elbow and let the grounding, stabilizing qualities of Jatamansi support you throughout the day. This particular blend also helps promote deep sleep if rolled on the bottoms of the feet at bedtime.
I find myself alternating right now between the Vata and Kapha balancing oils, because Vata/Fall season also brings about the first moments of wanting to hunker down and sometimes succumb to sluggishness. The qualities of Bergamot (uplifting), Tulsi (heart opening and boosts vitality) and Eucalyptus (promotes clear breathing and enhances the flow of prana), are nicely balanced with just enough Cedarwood to keep us grounded.
Enjoy those two blends and let me know how they affect YOU!